I sometimes think of the start of a new year as being on a mountain top – where I can look back at the trails I took to get here in the previous year and also look ahead to the paths I need to take to reach my next mountain peak, and the next. Sometimes, when we’re in the trenches of the trail itself, it can be easy to loose sight of the very summit we are trying to get to, much less see the ones we hope to get to next.
In the first half of last year, I was in the trenches of my climb, focused heavily on forging my way past every obstacle in my path. While I kept the image of my goal in my head, I lacked the perspective to see if I was actually getting any closer to the mountain top. Until I stopped. I took a break around late June/early July and took a step back from all the weeds I’d been whacking and rocks I’d been jumping (or stumbling) over. I checked my location. I looked again at my desired destination and looked back at the trail I’d cut through the rough over the past several months. While I could certainly see the effort – I didn’t see the progress I’d been hoping for.
So, I decided to make a change. I checked the temperature and the wind. Which is to say, I checked in with the world around me and asked myself – what do people really need from me most? And how am I most equipped to deliver it? While private coaching is extremely effective and enjoyable, I’ve known deep down that it just isn’t accessible to much of the world who needs it the most. And reading the current trends in both the economy and in healthcare, I was reassured that the goal I seek – to have a great impact on the way Americans connect their food with their health – was the right one, right now – if I can just make it accessible to more people. This brought me back to my book and an online video series that can deliver my message to more people in more places regardless of their economic resources.
And so, I spent the next 6 months scaling back my coaching practice to just a few (lucky) clients and focusing on my writing and on finishing my book. Although I set out to complete a short and simple book in just a few short months back in November of 2011, I’m ultimately thankful that I ended up taking more time with it because I can see all the ways the book has become more rich and satisfying – just like a great meal should be!
And now, as I look ahead from my mountain top – with a COMPLETE draft of my book!! – I can more clearly see the steps that lay ahead, with editing, reviews, publishing and the supporting video series. And the great news for all my loyal and patient readers – Thank You! – is that one step includes releasing sneak preview excerpts from the book through this blog and/or my newsletter! Woo-Hoo! So, stay tuned!
And, as I connect back to my coaching roots, I’d like to point out how this might apply to your own health goals for losing weight or improving your “numbers” or even just making more time to cook your meals. Sometimes, when we’re really caught up in our efforts or in our attempts to do better, eat better or be better – we very well could be missing the forest for the trees. If you really are making an honest effort and not getting results, taking a break to get some fresh perspective can make all the difference in the world. And second, that once I took stock of my methods and progress and decided to make a change – the biggest change (and the hardest to make) was in my thinking. After that, the actions I took in the new direction felt easy and natural.
Happy New Year! Here’s to creating our Best Year Yet!
with love, Kelly


